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|Hello. I'm Becka. I am 23-years-old and the gatekeeper, and kind of the "mother hen" in a multiple system. While we are primarily trauma-based in origin, we are not your stereotypical D.I.D. system. There is no psychotic murderer, there is no green kitchen in which you will find one of our children cowering. We simply see ourselves as people who share one body, and who got here by unfortunate circumstances. I, myself, am here due to trauma but I do not dwell on that.
I tend to be kind and gentle, as long as you do not mess with anyone else in our system or our friends. While our core (and main front runner) is American, I am English. However if you speak with me on the telephone, I tend to sound like a drunk New Zealander. I suppose this is caused by the body's vocal chords and loss of hearing. It's annoying but that's just how it is.
If you can treat me like a fellow human being, then I am happy to know you. I realise my existence may be difficult for some people to swallow. Those people need not subscribe to me. It is that simple. Otherwise, welcome to my corner of Dream Width.
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